Posted by Mike Foster: Tucker Max wrote the New York Times bestselling book "I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell."

His new book is called "Assholes Finish First" and is based on this thesis...well...being a jerk works!

His point is 100% valid. It is a sad philosophy for life but I know people who are huge successes but complete jerks. You probably know some too.

Hot girls date jerky guys. Ruthless CEO's are multi millionaires. Venom spewing religious leaders have thousands of followers. Morally bankrupt politicians get re-elected year after year.

But here is what I believe about life: "Graceholes Finish First"

The in your face, tenacious, annoying and loud "gracenomic" givers rise to the top. They finish first!

So seriously, who really wins in life, business and relationships?

Both have valid case studies proving their philosophies to be true. It's not as easy of an answer as you might think.

A@#holes or Graceholes? Who wins?

giving graceMike Foster